The Beautiful Power of Example!

May 22, 2014 -- 12:33pm

Our children are much more aware of their surroundings than we think.  Even if we don’t notice it ourselves, they are picking up on conversations that we have with our spouse, noting reactions we have to aggressive drivers, and are affected by comments we make about others after a Sunday service. 

And, they are learning.

What they learn from us in those “unguarded” moments will have a greater impact on them than those things we instruct…with words only.

Actions speak louder than words…and from our hearts - words, actions and reactions - attitudes are born.  We can’t avoid this axiom!

Our kids catch those attitudes.  In fact, I learned an important truth years ago that was very helpful in parenting.  Here it is:

More is “caught” than “taught”.   There is no greater gift that we can give our children than that of a godly example.  Now, it won’t be a perfect example, and it won’t be a sinless example.  But with the help of God and His amazing grace, it can be an AUTHENTIC EXAMPLE.

Parents who are wise will realize this, and accept as truth that we can’t teach from a position of “Do what I say, not what I do…”  We have to deal with our hearts first before we can pass along a way of living that we desire our children to follow.

Our kids will see straight through our hypocrisy if we are wanting them to do something that we don’t deem important enough to implement and follow in our own lives.  They will see straight through to what REALLY drives us.  They may not understand it, or even be able to articulate just what it is that drives us.  But – if our actions don’t match up to our words, they’ll discount our words.

A friend in Orlando once made a statement that was powerful.  I wish I had recorded it, but it went something like, “Those things we declare to be important, yet are held without passion or conviction in our own lives…those will be deemed as optional by our kids.” 

We have to resist the notion that what we do is not as important as what we say, or the ideal that we declare. 

When we live by convictions, our children have a compelling example laid before them, one that they will usually follow.

Till next time.


~ Mike Gilland

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